Traveling solo is awesome. No seriously, I have a great time in every place - even with the odd mishap or two - and always meet interesting and lovely people. Sometimes the mishaps can lead to even more excellent new adventures. Like the weekend I just had. This weekend in the Finger Lakes, upstate New York, was so bizarre/crazy-good that I am pretty certain whatever I write here is not going to capture it. So when you're reading my shit-house story-telling below, times it by 10 awesomes.
NB: Please forgive the constant changing of tenses. Whatever.
I headed up to Seneca Falls in the Finger Lakes on Friday, with the sole purpose of visiting the National Women's Historic Site (which was so good!) and maybe throwing in some delicious food and some nice waterholes on the side. Just one night, to see women's stuff. I just need you to remember these important points of the original plan before you get sidetracked with me. I got the bus at the crack of dawn upstate (hands up who is surprised to hear I slept the whole way, anybody?), and arrived in Ithaca to collect my hire car and be on my merry way up the lake. I had a tremendous time at the Women's Hall of Fame, National Women's Historic Site (I was the only person in the tour, so it ended up being a nice chat) and then Elizabeth Cady Stanton's house for a tour. I was engrossed for hours, and really I was going to write so many things about these sites in my blog before the weekend happened and I got distracted by shiny things...



After the Women Rock tour I was driving back to Ithaca via waterholes (to do list item number 2: tick), and I think I was on a bit of a Woman-Power Buzz. I was heading down Cayuga Lake, and there on the side of the road was a red barn winery that just looked like "America". I was like a moth to a flame - must see the America Barn (or, most likely, must try wines)! Naturally, after 10 minutes or so of wine-tasting and chit-chatting with my new friend Andy, I end up behind the bar helping him do tastings for a group of teachers on a girl's weekend away.
SOLO TRAVELING TIP 1: When nice teachers try and give you their number in-case-of-emergency, take it. Do not test fate and insist that you're
fine, totally independent and what could possibly go wrong?
The winery closed up for tastings, I was still hanging about (I was invited to, I swear) with a continuously topped-up glass in my hand and three new friends. We headed out to dinner and drinks in Trumansburg, at
Hazelnut Kitchen. Most delicious dinner, by the way. Highlights included cheeses, stopping for a deer to cross the road, requesting 80's tunes on the jukebox and getting seriously into sing-alongs on the way home. This was also when the metaphor of being 'lost in tall corn' was first used to describe my style of travel - basically it is like being in a field of tall corn, you can't see where you are or what lays ahead, you might end up somewhere great, or you might end up somewhere bad but you just go with it. I think it is a concept only known in Tim's family, but I like it away.


The next morning I woke-up to sunrise over Cayuga Lake out the window, which was a good start to a really ridiculous day. I tried to get back on track with all the things I was meant to be doing, like returning my hire car on time. I spent some time in Ithaca Commons, in town, while my phone was kindly being charged in a shop. Oh, also gluten-free waffles. Heavenly. Anyway, then I take the bus to Cornell University to check out the Plantations/botanical gardens.
This goes well, until Armageddon arrives...
And because I'm in the middle of the plantations aka the middle of nowhere (see the buildings way in the distance?), I get caught in Armageddon rain and am soaked. As in, someone-pushed-me-in-the-lake type of soaked. Which would be fine if I hadn't packed so light that I had no change of clothes. Or if the starbucks had had a hand dryer or if I had more appropriate footwear.
But none of this was the case. So I'm out in the streets catching pneumonia, trying to get back to the bus station in time for my bus back to New York. Which I did. I did get to the bus station in time for my bus, I just want that to be known. But I'm wet, see, and I'm about to embark on a 5 hour bus trip in Siberia (why must they over-aircondition the buses?) and the guy at the bus station says
yeah of course you have time to run across the road to get socks! the bus is running late! go for it! Lies. Absolute lies. I did get really great organic-wool socks from the co-op across the street (
Greenstar Coop is the best). Then my life turns into one of those really awkward comedy-of-errors films that I can't sit through for the cringe factor. I come out and the bus is there! It's on time! And I'm running down the street, still soaked, but of course the bus just takes off. I had a small rant at the bus station guy (
you said it was late! you lied!). Here are the lowlights: the next bus wasn't until the morning, my phone was about to die (aaaand I don't have a charger), all the hotels were booked out for Cornell University reunion weekend, I'm
wet, the car hire has closed already AND the only person I know doesn't own a cell phone or have Facebook. That is not 'quirky'. It is downright irresponsible and shouldn't be allowed! Lucky I'm industrious. So the guy at the bus charges my phone, I call the winery and two angels are sent to my rescue - Jamie and Stephen.
The Cockpit. Well, what to say? I had the best time with Jamie, Stephen and Nicole (angels/new BFFs) who so kindly took me under their wings and let me stay over. I had a shower, dried my clothes, drank lots of wine, went out in Ithaca and just about moved in permanently. Highlights of the Cockpit: being awarded a Giraffe, the magic dress and shoes, late-night eggs and stale corn chips, piggybacks, Collegetown Bagels, invention of new dance moves, a shared tendency to over-share and general all-round love. Wait, why did I leave?
I did hang around for an extra night, but I was picked up and taken back up the lake with my Friday night friends. I was very sad to say farewell to the Cockpit. We spent the night down at a cabin on the lake with a bunch of their buddies (I like the term buddy, everyone uses it here), for a BBQ of local delicious. Yum. It was here that I also finally fulfilled all of my American adventure must-dos - yep, we played beer pong and flip cup. I was a happy Aussie.
Finally, on Monday evening, I got the bus back to New York just in time to spend the final hour of the day with Charlie for his birthday. Of course, I slept the whole trip. So after all of that, I still have no idea what the scenery is like.
How could a weekend away be any better? See what can happen when you're lost in tall corn? Bad luck can turn into good and flying solo can lead to new besties. I do think maybe I need to be more organised, but I always seem to land on my feet. Oh, and my camera stopped working for a while there (hence all the Hipstamatics) but it's all good now. Good and bad luck, in equal measure.
Anyways. Thank you Mel, Tim, Andy, Susie, Jamie, Stephen and Nicole for an awesome weekend :)